I’ve been married to my partner for six years now, and it’s been a wonderful, meaningful, and rewarding marriage.
But while the process of planning a wedding is simple, the challenges of making a wedding planning decision have gotten harder, because there’s more than one way to get married.
A couple of years ago, I was planning for my next wedding, and one of the topics that came up at the planning meeting was “what to include in the list of wedding essentials.”
The answer came down to “what we’re doing now” and “what’s in store.”
But what if I’m going to take this to the next level, to what I’m doing now, instead of what I thought I was doing before?
What if I were to add the following items to the list?
A) “We are planning a cocktail party” B) “The reception is planned in the same room” C) “I have to plan for the kids and the dogs” D) “It’s going to be late, and I have to work late” There were two parts to this list.
I chose to include “work late” because I wanted to avoid the awkwardness of saying, “I don’t have time to do this because I’m in a rush to get the kids out.”
In other words, “we have to do it.”
The problem with the last item, “dogs and kids,” is that, for me, the first two items are both completely irrelevant, since I’m not planning on having any children in the next year or two.
The second item was my first choice.
So what do I do with it?
I need to figure out a better way to plan.
I need a better list of things to include, and, even though I know I’m probably not going to include it, I need it to be something that can be shared with the couple I’m planning to marry.
Here’s what I ended up doing: 1.
The list of Wedding Essentials That I’m Going To Use for My Wedding In this article, I’m using my husband’s wedding list as a template for this article.
In other news, we are now planning for our next wedding.
It’s going be our first one, so we have two wedding plans in mind.
I want to make sure we know what I have in mind before we start planning, so I’m making a list of what we are planning to do in the first month of the wedding.
I’ve also created a list for the next two months, so when I have more ideas for the wedding, I’ll add them.
It would be a little awkward if we didn’t add the last three items to this wedding list, but I know that my partner is going to want to include those items when we’re planning for the reception.
2.
What We’re Going to Do in the First Month of the Wedding This is the one I want the couple to keep.
When they arrive at the reception, I want them to be there for the main ceremony, because it’s the first time we have a large-scale wedding and I want everyone to be able to come out of the ceremony with their wedding rings and their vows intact.
After the reception is over, I like to have people at the wedding at least three hours before the big day, because I want people to know they’re there for a special day.
The main reason I’m thinking of this is that in some parts of the country, the reception can last several hours and can be packed with family and friends, and even though there are lots of people at your wedding, they can get overwhelmed and feel like they can’t attend the reception together.
If the reception goes well, it can feel like a lot of work.
When I’m talking to the couple, I try to get their ideas in a simple, straightforward way.
For example, I will ask them if they’d like to take some time to go over their ideas with someone else and get a feel for how the reception will go, and what it will look like.
We also talk about what people who are not part of the couple will be able do during the reception to help ease the nerves of the couples that aren’t there.
For the reception itself, I make a list, and if there’s one thing that I’m particularly looking forward to, it’s when the bride and groom are finally able to walk down the aisle together.
I ask if the couple would like to share a special moment together with the reception staff, and then I ask them to come with me to a spot that they can stand in the aisle and look out over the crowd of people.
The wedding reception is an experience that we all want to have, and we all love seeing people get to know each other on the big date.
It is an exciting and fulfilling time for the couple and for me
